Dreams + Aspirations vs Reality?

Its hard to understand this formula.

Everybody has DREAMS i.e. to be the cleverest,skillfull,happiest,richest,popular helpful, etc in their life of average 65-80 plus years of lifespan.

Everybody has ASPIRATIONS i.e. to be the cleverest,skillfull,happiest,richest,popular helpful, etc in their life of average 65-80 plus years of lifespan.

Everybody has REALITY i.e. limited means,not so clever,not so rich,etc...

I wonder how the ratios or formula works out to make the dream of a person who aspire to be rich for example become a reality. And what are the elements eg environment,timing etc that corelate or has an effect to the ratios formula.

I have these weird dream to be as agile as a monkey and apsire to be the most agile by the age of 40years old. The reality is i have to work on my physical being, routinely get support from my family friends colleagues physiotheraphy,ligament speacialist the way i eat, sleep, excercise,talk in order to focus on my weird dream to be agile. However going through makes me think how world champions like gymnastics,badminton,table tennis were developed since the age of 5-8 years old.What makes them perservere and be world champions.

Perhaps they do not have dreams when they were so young, its their supporters eg parents who dreams for them. At later stage the aspirations were instill into these kids when they can make choices and think in a rationale manner. reality is that parents dreams for their kids and kids apsire and make their parents dreams come true except for the late skill or natural talent bloomers.

The dreams belongs to who?
The aspirations belongs to who?
The reality belongs to who?

Dreams + Aspirations vs Reality?

Its hard to understand this formula.

Everybody has DREAMS i.e. to be the cleverest,skillfull,happiest,richest,popular helpful, etc in their life of average 65-80 plus years of lifespan.

Everybody has ASPIRATIONS i.e. to be the cleverest,skillfull,happiest,richest,popular helpful, etc in their life of average 65-80 plus years of lifespan.

Everybody has REALITY i.e. limited means,not so clever,not so rich,etc...

I wonder how the ratios or formula works out to make the dream of a person who aspire to be rich for example become a reality. And what are the elements eg environment,timing etc that corelate or has an effect to the ratios formula.

I have these weird dream to be as agile as a monkey and apsire to be the most agile by the age of 40years old. The reality is i have to work on my physical being, routinely get support from my family friends colleagues physiotheraphy,ligament speacialist the way i eat, sleep, excercise,talk in order to focus on my weird dream to be agile. However going through makes me think how world champions like gymnastics,badminton,table tennis were developed since the age of 5-8 years old.What makes them perservere and be world champions.

Perhaps they do not have dreams when they were so young, its their supporters eg parents who dreams for them. At later stage the aspirations were instill into these kids when they can make choices and think in a rationale manner. reality is that parents dreams for their kids and kids apsire and make their parents dreams come true except for the late skill or natural talent bloomers.

The dreams belongs to who?
The aspirations belongs to who?
The reality belongs to who?